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How to use and care for your Rose Quartz Pleasure Wand

Rose Quartz is a natural crystal sourced from Mother Nature.

It is known as the 'love stone' as the message it emits is a strong vibration of unconditional love, joy, warmth and emotional healing.

Due to its precious nature, please take extra care when handling your Pleasure Wand as dropping it will cause it to break.


Rose Quartz is known to take on the energy of your intent. Honour your body and your self by taking time to unwind in an uninterrupted, comfortable space.

You may like to hold your crystal close while meditating, breathing slowly and deeply, connecting with the Rose Quartz energy. Visualise your Pleasure Wand being filled with the essence of your intent.

You may like to use self affirmations, encouraging your Divine Being to love yourself deeply, with your whole heart.

If using your Pleasure Wand for healing work, know that it will help you remove unwanted energies from previous physical, emotional and sexual trauma, as well as remove energetic traces from previous experiences.

You may wish to envision yourself consciously healing, by connecting with your sacred sexuality and infusing the essence of your visualisation into your crystal.

You may enjoy your Pleasure Wand without the energy and healing aspects, if you do not feel called to program your wand with such intentions.

Cleanse & Care

Gently wash the Pleasure Wand with hot (not boiling) water and a water-based (oil free) soap when you first receive it, and after each use.

As Rose Quartz holds energy of those who come into contact with it, it’s recommended that you energetically cleanse your wand while setting intentions before each use, or as often as you feel called to do so. Cleansing resets the crystal to a neutral energy, allowing you to infuse your loving energy into it. 

You may cleanse your wand in whichever way feels right for you. Think of it as an intimate and meaningful ritual. Kahli recommends:

  • Cleansing in the ocean
  • Leave in the sunshine for an hour
  • Bathing it in the light of the full moon
  • Salt water bath ~ you may like to do this at least once a week
  • Sound or energy clearing
  • Smudging ~ choose either a sage smudge or incense sticks to cleanse the crystal with smoke
  • Bury it in the earth

If you have any questions, or would like to share your own personal experience in using the Rose Quartz Pleasure Wand, please leave a comment below ~ all thoughts welcome.

Sending you healing and love X

1 comment

  • Absolutely divine.
    The most incredible mind blowing deep soul diving self pleasure experiences I’ve ever had. Yes yes yes please and thank you.


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